The Queer Geer (A room for LGBT forum goers)

[Choreocrat]

Pretty much, but it doesn't quite exclude someone who'll have a non-sexual intimate relationship with someone of any gender-sex combination. It's possible that someone could claim both labels. By my way of thinking, they can do so, because by claiming the label, you define it (not the other way around).

[Lilith-Nighthawk]

How about we talk about how last time I went to a queer youth event I came back from it with a ring of hickies? Oh and ways for me to get up the courage to call that girl I was talking about earlier. SHe really is awesome. I'm giving her major points for her love of curly and highly curly hair textures, being cute, smart,and pagan. Maby I'll call her in the mornning. But i need encouragment here people.

*Goes and fluffs her really curly hair*

[Lord Wraste]

Lilith,
GO! DO IT!
For all you know, she could be pining away by the phone, wondering why you've not called.

What have you to lose?

[Lilith-Nighthawk]

Lilith,
GO! DO IT!
For all you know, she could be pining away by the phone, wondering why you've not called.

What have you to lose?

Did I ever mention how I would marry you if were fem and lived in my state or i was atracted to guys? But I do rather like my dignity. I would hate to make a  fool out of myself over the phone when i was pretty good on the bus. I'll deffintly call her though.

[Lord Wraste]

Lilith,
GO! DO IT!
For all you know, she could be pining away by the phone, wondering why you've not called.

What have you to lose?

Did I ever mention how I would marry you if were fem and lived in my state or i was atracted to guys? But I do rather like my dignity. I would hate to make a  fool out of myself over the phone when i was pretty good on the bus. I'll deffintly call her though.

You've jsut made my morning.

And the old saying, "Pride comes before the fall" can apply to not allowing ourselves the chance to fail, but to not trying in the first place.
(That's a little ramble-y, but it's early in teh mornin' for me! )

I'm glad that you're calling her.
LUCK!!!

[Lilith-Nighthawk]

Lilith,
GO! DO IT!
For all you know, she could be pining away by the phone, wondering why you've not called.

What have you to lose?

Did I ever mention how I would marry you if were fem and lived in my state or i was atracted to guys? But I do rather like my dignity. I would hate to make a  fool out of myself over the phone when i was pretty good on the bus. I'll deffintly call her though.

You've jsut made my morning.

And the old saying, "Pride comes before the fall" can apply to not allowing ourselves the chance to fail, but to not trying in the first place.
(That's a little ramble-y, but it's early in teh mornin' for me! )

I'm glad that you're calling her.
LUCK!!!

Thanks! Now I have to take a nap so i'm not tired and grumpy when I call. *yawns and snuggles with bunny under black bed covers, pulling her HIM throw over her head leaving face exposed*

[LukeHogbin]

mmmm, Pride And Fall ... *launches xmms2 and plays some music* (Pride and Fall - December)

*sings along*

Sweet dreams, Lilith-Nighthawk

[neon_suntan]

You should definitely call her... if she's as nice as you say, I wouldn't leave it too late either!

[Dr. Wilson Montgomery]

Dr Montgomery:  Somehow steampunk-sequins is a phrase unlikely to occur frequently.

A tiny, tiny part of me reads this and wants to create a really camp steampunky drag-persona.  

[SashaGears]

so.....I wake up....and I find my cat in my room, EATING MY CACTUS.....


and this isn't....a real cactus, persay, well, he was eating the real cactus NEXT to my pet cactus, but I made a plush pet cactus who is fat, pill shaped....kinda adorable with eyes and a mouth, and his name is turblo.

so my cat was sitting there eating my real cactus, and horror struck to what would have happened if he tried to eat turblo and realized it was a fraud ;_;

there isn't enough love for cactus-kind. a man and woman will never love you more than a pet cactus, he's who I tell my secrets to...

oh....also, I keep searching for this bag and I'm fairly certain it's an authentic messenger bag not one of the big and clunky ones but I can't find anything like it anywhere and it's really grinding my gears.

<3 how is everyone this fine new year's eve?

[Mina]

I'm sorry to hear about your cactus, SashaGears. As for my new years, my parents are going out, so I'm having one of my gorgeous, strait-as-an-arrow girl friends over for the night, we'll probably watch a movie and break open some sparkling wine

[SashaGears]

my boyfriend is coming over after his family's little..party thing ends, yay :3


>_> my arrows are curved so that they spin through the air and slice rather than pierce so....heheheehehehehe


I finally just finished my mother's christmas present....a wall-sized painting of a tree of life on an island in the see for her bar outside....phew my hand hurts.

[Dr. Wilson Montgomery]

there isn't enough love for cactus-kind.
<3 how is everyone this fine new year's eve?

Weeel... *I* certainly love my tiny collection of Peyote-cacti

Morning after new year over here, and not much love, alas. More of a miserable deathwish to escape the hangover from last night.

[Lord Wraste]

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Lilith,
GO! DO IT!
For all you know, she could be pining away by the phone, wondering why you've not called.

What have you to lose?

Did I ever mention how I would marry you if were fem and lived in my state or i was atracted to guys? But I do rather like my dignity. I would hate to make a  fool out of myself over the phone when i was pretty good on the bus. I'll deffintly call her though.

You've jsut made my morning.

And the old saying, "Pride comes before the fall" can apply to not allowing ourselves the chance to fail, but to not trying in the first place.
(That's a little ramble-y, but it's early in teh mornin' for me! )

I'm glad that you're calling her.
LUCK!!!

Thanks! Now I have to take a nap so i'm not tired and grumpy when I call. *yawns and snuggles with bunny under black bed covers, pulling her HIM throw over her head leaving face exposed*

Did you call her, did you call her, did you call her?!?!
HUH?!? HUH?!?!

Nosy interweb friends want to know!!!!

[darkshines]

...wouldn't being pansexual and asexual be mutually exclusive?

Yup, pans DEFINATELY like having sex, and are sexually attracted to others, whereas A's just wanna be friends

[LukeHogbin]

...wouldn't being pansexual and asexual be mutually exclusive?

Yup, pans DEFINATELY like having sex, and are sexually attracted to others, whereas A's just wanna be friends

One can be attracted to other people without necessarily wanting to get in their pants.

[darkshines]

Um, yeah, maybe I didn't phrase that right. I have a boyfriend, who I am physical with, and I adore. But my asexual friend just has many friends, and doesn;t have sex with anyone, even himself. I think if you were pansexual, and didn;t want to have sex with anyone, you would be asexual, as in you can find the attractivness in anyone but don; necessary want them in a physical way. Does that make more sense?

[LukeHogbin]

It's clearer, yes. Thank you for rephrasing it. And I agree with that, to an extent. Still I think it's important to differentiate between asexual and antisexual, as I pointed out some posts ago.

[darkshines]

Ah, I missed that, I have never heard of anti-sexual, is that having the want, but going against it?

[LukeHogbin]

It's pretty well explained here -> http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Antisexualism

[Lilith-Nighthawk]

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Lilith,
GO! DO IT!
For all you know, she could be pining away by the phone, wondering why you've not called.

What have you to lose?

Did I ever mention how I would marry you if were fem and lived in my state or i was atracted to guys? But I do rather like my dignity. I would hate to make a  fool out of myself over the phone when i was pretty good on the bus. I'll deffintly call her though.

You've jsut made my morning.

And the old saying, "Pride comes before the fall" can apply to not allowing ourselves the chance to fail, but to not trying in the first place.
(That's a little ramble-y, but it's early in teh mornin' for me! )

I'm glad that you're calling her.
LUCK!!!

Thanks! Now I have to take a nap so i'm not tired and grumpy when I call. *yawns and snuggles with bunny under black bed covers, pulling her HIM throw over her head leaving face exposed*

Did you call her, did you call her, did you call her?!?!
HUH?!? HUH?!?!

Nosy interweb friends want to know!!!!

ok to appease nosey inter web friends. I called and we hung oiut with some of her frinds.

[Isabella Stormrift]

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Lilith,
GO! DO IT!
For all you know, she could be pining away by the phone, wondering why you've not called.

What have you to lose?

Did I ever mention how I would marry you if were fem and lived in my state or i was atracted to guys? But I do rather like my dignity. I would hate to make a  fool out of myself over the phone when i was pretty good on the bus. I'll deffintly call her though.

You've jsut made my morning.

And the old saying, "Pride comes before the fall" can apply to not allowing ourselves the chance to fail, but to not trying in the first place.
(That's a little ramble-y, but it's early in teh mornin' for me! )

I'm glad that you're calling her.
LUCK!!!

Thanks! Now I have to take a nap so i'm not tired and grumpy when I call. *yawns and snuggles with bunny under black bed covers, pulling her HIM throw over her head leaving face exposed*

Did you call her, did you call her, did you call her?!?!
HUH?!? HUH?!?!

Nosy interweb friends want to know!!!!

ok to appease nosey inter web friends. I called and we hung oiut with some of her frinds.

Progress was made? huzzah!

[darkshines]

Nice one Lilith, I hope you have gained a friend, and perhaps more. I am NEVER that brave, someone has to be REALLY special for me to get in touch, hence why I am with Cowperthwaite, whom I adore!

[Lilith-Nighthawk]

yup! Now i just need to hang out with her more.

[CorneliaCarton]

...wouldn't being pansexual and asexual be mutually exclusive?

Yup, pans DEFINATELY like having sex, and are sexually attracted to others, whereas A's just wanna be friends

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We do?